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The Greatest Gift That You Can Give Your Family
There is no greater gift you can give your
family members than leaving them a legacy of faith. In his second
letter to Timothy, the apostle Paul reminds his young protégé that
the "unfeigned faith" which he possessed resided first in his
grandmother, Lois, and his mother, Eunice (2 Timothy 1:5). They had
passed on to him a legacy of faith. It's impossible to give away
something you don't originally possess. As personal as salvation is,
there is a sense in which we receive it as a gift along from God to
us by others. Paul was reminding Timothy of his spiritual "roots>"
A Point of Beginning
"There was a beginning point for your
faith," Paul reminded Timothy. "It dwelt first in your grandmother."
With those words we are reminded that every legacy of faith has its
point of beginning. Occasionally when telling our family's story, I
am confronted by some who says, "But I didn't receive a wonderful
heritage of faith." That simply means that you have the privilege of
being the first in line, the beginning point, for generations to
come. What an awesome privilege! Have you thanked God for that
honor? Are you passing along the faith God has given you?
It's Under Your Watch
Timothy's grandmother made certain that he
torch of her faith was passed to her daughter who then passed it to
her own son. That is not always the case. On more occasion I have
talked with parents whose own children "came to church faithfully"
but have now "strayed from the faith." Admittedly, we cannot
discount the power of personal choice. After all, remember the
prodigal son. Neither can we "pass the buck" when it comes to
nurturing a growing sense of spiritual heritage. Churches don't
raise children ... parents do! How is your family's legacy of faith
fairing "under your watch?" It is developing, or disappearing?
Incredible Impact!
Timothy was the recipient of at least two
letters penned by the apostle, Paul. Those two letters, inspired by
the Holy Spirit, are some of the most significant letters in the New
Testament. While we know little of Lois or Eunice, we know a great
deal about Timothy. You cannot help but wonder if his mother and
grandmother ever imagined that, one day, Paul would place his
ministerial mantle upon Timothy. That's the incredible impact
inherent in a legacy of faith.
The Bottom Line
The bottom line is this: Whatever you do,
leave a legacy of faith and faithfulness!
'Til Death Do Us Part
By Rebecca Grace -
AFA Journal Staff Writer
From childhood neighbors to high school
sweethearts, a trip down the aisle was the next natural step for
Buddy Smith, AFA’s executive assistant to the president, and his
love, Carol.
"I was in ninth grade, and she was in seventh grade when I first
expressed an interest in her," Buddy recalled. "Her mother put a
stop to that, and I couldn’t get past a phone call."
But as the youngsters matured, a relationship of love began to
develop that led them to marriage at the ages of 21 and 19.
"We believe that marriage was God’s idea and that He brought us
together as husband and wife," Buddy explained. "The foundation of
our marriage has always been the acknowledgment that it is made up
of three people — the two of us and God as the central figure."
"We like to picture Christian marriage as a triangle — a man and
woman at the base with Jesus Christ as the apex," Carol added.
Therefore, a Christ-centered home is the couple’s master key to a
fulfilling marriage.
"[But] other vital keys on the ring of a lasting marriage include
unconditional love, mutual trust, honesty, respect, care,
communication, sexual faithfulness and purity, friendship,
reconciliation and growth," Buddy said, all in view of commitment.
"We think it’s very important to talk about commitment in the
marriage relationship in light of the nebulous meanings of ‘love’ in
today’s culture. … For many couples today, love is treated as a
feeling that comes and goes and is void of any commitment," Buddy
explained.
"But marriage is not whatever society chooses to make of it," he
added. "A Christian marriage is a total commitment of two people to
the person of Jesus Christ and to one another."
"We understood on our wedding day that our commitment was only a
gesture of beginning the lifelong process of handing over everything
to Jesus Christ and one another," Carol explained.
Advice: Anchor yourselves in a
Bible-believing church that offers ongoing ministry opportunities
designed to strengthen existing marriages.
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